Decision Making
"What to eat today?", "Anything!", "Where to eat today?", "Anywhere!" ......How many time these kind of conversation happened in our daily life? Maybe countless. How I wished that was a place to eat by the name of "Anywhere" or "Anything" kind of food to order at that particularly moment! This deal with our decision and most of all patient!
Do you always have hesitation when making up decision?Specially important decision. Or do you being restricted to really make up your own mind? Under many circumstances , we really do need to consider other people feeling, thinking and opinion. We never can freely follow our will in an original form.People use to be very judgmental."Your shoes is beautiful!" ,"You look lovely today!".....are these praising or just being judgmental ? I never know. I think if it's really what exactly what you think or your true feeling ,it should be alright.Furthermore,how often can we hear some hearty praising! So in order to make most people happy , we normally become unhappy. What would you like to be?
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My husband and I are still working at this. To me, if I ask him what he wants to do, it means I am open to anything he wants and he should tell me what he wants. I assume the same to be true for him, but when he asks me where I want to eat for example, and I tell him. Then he'll often share another place that he'd rather eat at instead. I always go along with whatever he wants in these minor decisions so I don't get why he even bothers to ask me if he already knows what he wants to do or where to go.
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